He's just not that into you - It's a tip. Read it girls ;*

P/S : This post created by watching the movie " He's Just Not Into You". Well I already watched that movie longgg longggg time ago but suddenly feeling the urge to write about the movie. And I copy some (banyak sebenarnya) of the scripts in the movie. Here and there. So, yeah..

A girl will never forget the first boy she likes.

Even if things don't quite work out.

But, we're all encouraged, no, programmed..  to believe that if a guy acts like a total jerk..

That means he likes you.

Woman... *sigh

Tellin ya the truth. Thats how woman works.

Even if the guy acts like a total jerk, totally ignore her the whole time, give as many sign he can to tell the girl that he doesn't like her,

Some girl (well I guess many many of us) tends to pretend the hint bring another sign.

Just because we. woman. like them.

* double sigh~

Then we will covered up the truth by saying, 

" Ouh, maybe he's too busy with his work. Or maybe with his family. "

" He's not asking you out because he's intimidated by your professional success. "

" I'm sure he just forgot your number.. Or... was eaten by lion? "

Denying all the hints sure is easy.

Why do we say this stuff to each other?

Is it possible that it's because we're too scared..

and it's too hard to say the one obvious truth that's staring everyone in the face?

HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU

But woman, please don't be toooooooo desperate. Your times will come. Eventually.

Everyone got their own timeline.

.... if he's not calling you

You might think you reserve the right to call him at 15-minute intervals until he picks up.  

But if he looks down and sees your numbers, he's gonna think you're some kind of psycho or something.

well, I dont do that. But maybe.. (just maybe!) I'm some kind of psycho too when I searched about that person background through his faceboook, twitter, instagram and etc.

But hey, it's a MUST. Dont you think?

You know someone through socmed, a total stranger. And you give him your telegram ID to get know each other. Dont you think you deserve the right to do some digging? HAHA.

Afterall, I'm being honest when I told him what I found out. 

Personal things? Yeah yeah I kno. *sigh

But, thats it. Tu je la aku cari pon. Nak tengok dia betul betul wujud ke idok. 

From a guy view,

" If he's not calling you. He's never gonna call you."

" It's just how we do it. "

" If a guy doesn't call you, he doesn't wanna call you."

Really.

Always.

Titik. Noktah.

" If a guy is treating you like he doesn't give a shit.. He genuinely doesn't give a shit. "

No exception.

" ... if he's not marrying you. " 

or maybe he said he's not ready yet or worse, he doesn't even want to talk about it even though you guys already being together for about 5 years and more,

runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn girl! YOU. BETTER. RUN!

" If a guy want to see you. Believe me, he will see you. "

If a guy wants to date you, believe me, he will make it happen. He will ask you out.

Sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending, we don't learn how to read signs.

How to tell ones who want us from the ones who don't.

The ones who will stay from the ones who will leave.

And maybe this happy ending doesn't include a wonderful guy.

Maybe it's you..

On your own..

Picking up the pieces and starting over.

Freeing yourself up for something better in the future.

Maybe the happy ending is just,

Moving on.

and maybe the happy ending is this,

Knowing that through all the unreturned phone calls and broken hearts

through all the blunders and misread signals

through all of the pain and embarassment

you never, ever gave up hope.

So, just know when to stop. STOP hurting yourself by ignoring all the signals. STOP being in delusional. STOP if the guy being a jerk to you all the times. STOP when you think it is okay to ignore your own feeling if that's make him feels better.

You are a wonderful person. Just because you are getting old (me!), doesn't mean you really need to endure all the hurt and pain to accept someone just because everyone already met their soulmates.

Your times will come.

:)

Caffeine Lovers [0 Cup of Coffee]

Hai. Assalamualaikum. They call me si hati batu. Fyi, aku bukan hati batu sangat pon. Dah memang aku tak suka. Nak buat macam mana kan? ouh wait, btw, nama aku agak unik. Zyafiya. tapi sebutan dia Zafiya okay. So, jangan nak main mainkan nama aku pulak. Hiks.

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~ Nurul Fariyana Zyafiya binti Mohd Johan ~

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" Kau single lagi sekarang? Agak-agaknya la kan, kau nak tunggu sampai bila makcik? Nak tunggu sampai kad kahwin dia sampai kat tangan kau? Camtu? Aku tak faham betul la dengan kau ni, dari dulu lagi aku dengar, kau cakap, kau da 'remove' dia dari hati kau, tapi, tengok la sekarang, kau duk meraung melalak pebagai bila dapat tahu yang dia da bertunang. Cukup-cukup la makcik. Kau cari je la orang yang lebih berhak jadi Mr.Imperfect kau tu . Aku tak nak la tengok member aku ..........."

' Hurm.. Ape la nasib aku, jatuh cinta dekat mamat senget tu. Tak pasal-pasal aku bazirkan hidup aku dari tingkatan empat semata-mata sebab dia. Aishh.. Yang si Bella ni pon satu, duk merepek merapu tu kenapa? Bila masa plak aku meraung melalak ni. Ta faham betul aku. Tido lagi bagus. '

“Ayien, kau dengar tak cakap aku ni? Ya Allah budak ni. Punya banyak aku bercakap, dia pergi tidur pulak. Berlakon la tu. Saja tak nak dengar aku membebel. Ish  budak ni.” Bella hanya mampu menggeleng melihat telatah Ayien yang telah pun memejamkan matanya itu.

Eh, hai ! Aku mamat macho pujaan hati si budak pendek. Aku kenal dia sejak sekolah lagi. Kawan kawan dia? Semua kenal aku. Orang hensem, biasa la jadi pujaan ramai kan?

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~ Wan Arafiq Arash bin Wan Tajudin ~

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“Kat mana Ayien tengok gambar Areen dengan Arash?”

“Ayien pasang spy.. hahahha.. Arash ngan dia ek? Siap ada anak lagi. Sikit pon Arash tak ajak Ayien, diam-diam Arash kawin.”

Arash kelu tanpa kata-kata. Dia masih tertanya-tanya. Macam mana Ayien boleh tahu kewujudan gambar itu.

Siapa aku? Hmm. Aku Rish. Aku anak orang kaya. Nama pon dah bunyi macam 'rich' kan? Haha. Hidup aku mewah. Tapi jiwa aku kosong. Macam mana aku kenal budak takda perasaan tu? Tu namanya JODOH.

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~  Tengku Farish Al-Qairudin bin Tengku Mohd Zainal ~

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“ Rish, kau dah couple ke dengan Ayien?”

“ Belum la. Aku pun tak faham, hati Ayien macam bukan dekat aku. Aku seolah-olah bayangan orang lain di mata Ayien.”

Rish mengeluh. Gitarnya dipetik memainkan lagu violet, lagu buat Ana. Rish tertanya – tanya.

‘Siapa aku di mata Ayien? Kawan atau kekasih?’

Kembali [1]

"Argghhhhhh....!!!"


Fateh terkejut dari tidurnya. Peluh berkeringat membasahi muka.


"Astaghfirullahalazim... Ya Allah, kenapa aku selalu mimpikan perempuan tu." Fateh meraup wajahnya.



Perempuan itu.

Masih di tempat yang sama.

Bilik yang sama.

Memakai baju yang sama.


Dan terkurung.



Mimpi itu seolah-olah menjadi teman dalam hidupnya sejak tahun lepas. Semakin jelas wajah perempuan itu. Mata yang penuh ketakutan. Mata yang seolah olah hilang cahaya. Kosong.



***


"Eh Fateh, kau harini stay dekat office sampai malam lagi ke?"


Fateh mengangkat mukanya. Blueprints yang dihadapnya sejak tengah hari tadi diletakkan di atas meja.


"Yelahh Khai. Kerja berlambak ni. Bos cakap kalau boleh dia nak aku settlekan proposal ni as soon as possible. Katanya client kalau boleh nak cepatkan proses pembangunan rumah tu. Dah la aku ada satu lagi projek nak kena handle. Nasib baik ni client lama kita. Kalau tak.. "


"Kalau tak ape Fateh oi..? Hahahaha. Weh, aku nak blah dulu ni. Aku ada date dengan Sya. Bising pulak tunang aku tu karang. Dah la semalam aku cancel date sebab tetiba bos ajak meeting. Aku blah dulu k."


"Kau ni, tak menyabar betul. Baru aku nak ajak sembang. Heh. Untung laaa orang dah ada tunang.. Aku ni jangan kata tunang, bayang bayang pon tak muncul lagi. Hahahahaa. Pergi ah kau balik sana. Kirim salam aku dekat Sya ok."


"Yelahh Fateh oi.. Hahahahhaa. Sorry ah. Nanti kita lepak ok. Ni kalau orang dengar mahunya kita dicop geng kunyit. Hahahahhaha. Aku chow dulu."


Blueprints banglo itu kembali ditatap Fateh. Tiba-tiba fikirannya melayang mengingati mimpi tentang perempuan berbaju biru itu,



"Ishh.. tak boleh jadi ni. Better aku sambung kerja dekat rumah."



***



"Bang, teh tarik satu.'


Fateh melonggarkan tali lehernya. Rimas. Matanya pejam melayani badan yang tersandar letih  sementara pesanan makannya sampai.


Otaknya kembali memutarkan kembali mimpinya  tadi.



Perempuan itu.



Siapa?





Tiba-tiba Fateh terdengar bunyi kerusi depannya ditarik.


"Err.. encik. Saya tumpang meja ni boleh? Meja lain dah penuh la."


Fateh membuka matanya.




Terkejut dengan wajah yang berada di hadapannya.








Perempuan itu.